So I recent had a discussion with a friend where the question came up, “What are you doing to find someone?” Here is my issue with that question, TO ME, is suggests that being in a relationship is superior to being single. Or, that my efforts should only be about finding a significant other. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not anti-relationship. I personally just don’t want to be so focused on finding someone that I forget to enjoy the now. So, I purposed this question instead: Am I taking full advantage of my single life? Am I hanging out with my friends and family, am I traveling, saving for my future, getting /staying healthy, and even flirting a little. Am I enjoying the now?
Tell me below. Are you taking advantage of the single life? If so, what are you doing? If not, what’s holding you back?